Monday, 2 March 2026

The Need for R & R - Reward and Responsibility

R&R, in HR parlance (also understood beyond the fraternity) means Reward and Recognition.  It refers to recognizing (non-monetary means) and rewarding (monetary means), or both, the contribution of employees at all levels. The method of rewarding and recognizing such contribution varies from organization to organization.  

There is the stated expectation from the management i.e. leadership is that such R & R will "motivate" employees to put in more effort and contribute more productively in their roles. An unspoken hope in in the mind of the management is also that the employee will now take on additional responsibility without an increase in their compensation and/or change in grade.


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In reality, these hopes rarely met sufficient or effective results.  Why? There are a number of reasons for this, and I'd recommend the book "Punished By Rewards" by Alfie Kohn for a brilliantly lucid perspective on this.  

Furthermore, this approach to Rewards and Recognition has led to problems when we try to find leaders from within the organization based on "past performance and rewards" alone.  There's a strong need to include a Potential Assessment along with regular Career Development Conversations within this process, but not every organization is keen on investing time and resources in this intervention, though they understand the benefits.  This state of affairs is compounded by the adoption of AI over the past few years, which has disrupted everyone's thinking about careers.

Here's what I propose for the organization's search for it's next leaders..

What if we shifted this Rewards and Recognition nomenclature to
R&R - Rewards and Responsibility?

Here's the inspiration for my article - an excerpt from Patrick Leddin's newsletter where he is in conversation with Patrick Lencioni (author of the Five Dysfunctions of a Team)

"During our conversation, we explored why people so often step away from the most important parts of leadership once things get difficult. Pat explained that it frequently comes down to motive.

Some people are reward-centered. They step forward because of what leadership gives them: recognition, control, influence, or the feeling that they have finally arrived. Leadership becomes a position or a prize.

Others are responsibility-centered. They see leadership as, in Pat’s words, a “huge and overwhelming responsibility.” These people understand that stepping forward means taking on the hardest work first. That work shows up in many forms: developing others, having honest conversations, making decisions that are uncomfortable, communicating more than feels necessary, and staying present when things get messy.

None of that work is glamorous. It takes energy, patience, and consistency. You cannot fake it. You cannot outsource it. And you cannot ignore it without consequences."

So, what would Reward and Responsibility mean, if we consider the above context? 

  1. It would mean that we are communicating to our people (particularly those with the promotion itch) that "you are being rewarded not just because of your contribution in the past, but also because we see potential in in you and expect you to step up to future responsibilities as proactively as you can within all the constraints in your way". 
  2. It would mean that you are now among various other top performing employees in preferential (fast track)contention for further roles in the organization's growth story. 

Quite a few large organizations do have an effective Fast Track growth path for key performers.  In these fast track growth paths, employees are explicitly told what roles they are being considered for.  They are put into special development paths. 

The obvious benefits are improved productivity and leadership pipeline.  

The not-so-obvious benefits are employee engagement, ease of hiring and retention  of key talent. 

I'd like to share an example of this that I witnessed some years ago. At the start of a senior leadership program I was conducting for a large organization, the C-suite leader set the context for the two days, explicitly conveying to the participants what some of the future growth plans of the organization were, and how there was a need for more leaders, reiterating that this training was one of the opportunities being provided to the participants to step up into regional leadership roles.


High rewards should to be accompanied by higher responsibility.  When you are allocating rewards to your team, be sure to ensure that your conversation of appreciating and rewarding their performance also includes nudging them toward taking greater responsibility.

If you feel that that you are leadership material, and leadership roles are all about the recognition, control, influence as mentioned above, then also be aware that the other points of developing others, honest (and difficult) conversations of all types and tough decisions and so on mentioned above are also a major part of the your leadership role.

Serious about to work on developing, enhancing and showcasing your leadership capability to meet future leadership needs? Write to me at ryanbbarretto@hotmail.com or call on +919820155778 so we can schedule a discussion.


Disclaimer - I don't get compensated for mentioning Alfie Kohn's book or Patrick Leddin's newsletter.  I like sharing useful and thought-provoking information with my readers.

Thursday, 12 February 2026

Know Yourself - What it really means

Here's a video where I talk about what one really should know in order to know oneself.

Why? Knowing yourself means you then can introspect and clearly understand yourself which would guide you into making effective decisions in your life and career.

All comments invited.

https://youtu.be/9etu02AtSJA 





Monday, 9 February 2026

Building Competence




 Look -> See -> Notice -> Identify / analyze -> Comprehend -> Apply as required

Excelling in only one of these doesn't guarantee success.  Excelling in all is quite impossible. Yet, success will not happen without these #competencies - no matter if you are a junior employee or a senior leader, and no matter the function and industry you work in.


What are you great at? Where would you like to get better?


Working with a strengths coach is more effective that going at it alone. Let's have a discussion - Leave me a message here or call on +919820155778.



Thursday, 15 January 2026

Workshop work - Influencing Mindshift



The world moves with conversations and decisions.  Some of these decisions happen with internal conversations with oneself, some with external conversations i.e. with other people.  (Pic Courtesy - pexels-isaquepereira-394377)

Making a decision or getting people to decide involves change - which is easier said that done.  Most of the time, people hate change because change is hard, because even though the change is in their best interests, they love their comfort zone more, among other reasons for loving or hating people, things, directions (sometimes based on conscious or unconscious biases).  

As most people are aware, convincing someone to change their minds is not as easy as it sounds, and takes lots of time and effort. You have to carefully craft your message. Why? 

  • You don't want to come across as pushy and dominating
  • Whether as a leader or a parent,  people do use their own minds (in ways you haven't fully considered or predicted), so you have to plan to predict and how to manage the objections that inevitability come up.
  • All of this mostly increases your blood pressure before providing a modicum of tangible results.

    Because of these factors, I consider convincing or influencing to be the most superior form of communication.  

    In organization's speed is of the essence, hence I put together a workshop that consisted of exercises and activities including roleplays, around Robert Cialdini's Principles of Influence, Levers of Change by Howard Gardner, and Nudge by Richard Thaler and Cass Sunstein, and spent some time around building a growth mindset (change is easier when you can influence that in others). 

    I used a mix of reflective activities, facilitator-led discussions, personally designed facilitation processes and group discussions to enable participants to arrive at a deeper understanding of influence and mindset.

    Here's some pics of the action including participant's insights and actions of this workshop titled "Influencing Mindshift" that I conducted for leaders of a consulting organization:

    Deep Dive Into Influencing






    Participants' Insights

    Action Planning

    Want to know more about the session, or want to run this for your organization or team, let's talk - call on +919820155778.







    Sunday, 4 January 2026

    The Books I read in 2025

     Here's what I did in the world of reading in 2025.



    As usual, it's a mix of both fiction and non-fiction.  I'd say the most intriguing books for me in the fiction category are "Snow Crash" and "Three Body Problem".

    In non fiction, I found "Open Space Technology", "The Choice Factory", "Dialogue" and "The Misfit's Manifesto" extremely powerful, and definitely recommended for those in the space of leadership and learning.

    Click here to know which books I read, and the reviews I have left

    Monday, 29 December 2025

    Generative AI for business Leaders

     


    Here's a lucid article on how #leaders can leverage #AI to make a difference to their organization's growth along with the skills of it's people.

    From the article - "Leaders who take proactive steps to amplify #humanskills will future-proof their workforce, unlock new levels of innovation, engagement, and competitive advantage, and ensure that AI enhances, rather than replaces, their greatest asset: people."

    Click here to read the article.


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