Showing posts with label customer service. Show all posts
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Monday, 3 May 2021

And I am NOT! - How to Leverage Your Strengths for Resilience


And I am NOT!


 A seemingly innocuous line, isn't it?

 

This happens to be the last line in the graphic novel, 'Small Gods' by Sir Terry Pratchett. So let's have a little more context.

 

The line is said by the hero to (the character) Death, when he's helping the villain to cross limbo. Death is reminding the hero that the villain was an extremely bad person who hurt and tortured many people, implying that he's undeserving of such assistance. The hero acknowledges this by saying yes the villain did do all those things, and is a bad person, and I am NOT.  And the hero continues to help the villain go across limbo.

 

Since you are human and probably with access to the internet,  it's likely that you have been in a situation where someone at work or home has wronged you (in reality or as perceived by you). You probably had some strong thoughts, particularly about how to get back.  Sometimes, you actually searched and waited for the opportune moment.  Perhaps you made a comment, or refused a request, or just shared the incident with other people.  If you got sympathy from others, you felt vindicated.  As you vented, you probably felt some release and relief.

 

The problem here is that we become comfortable with this state of being because our ego is fed and happy.  It doesn’t really solve the problem, take the relationship forward or help you grow.  The ability to recover quickly from such challenges is going to be stunted.  This, after all, is not what being resilient is about.

 

Now, what if you were to say this line to yourself “And I am NOT!” during or immediately after these times of tense interactions where the need to get back at the other person in a nasty, perhaps damaging way, is particularly strong?


"And I am NOT" reminds me of who I have become, my strengths and weaknesses (and both are ok to have – which makes me OK).  It also empowers me to remember what I have given up in terms of negative behavior, and what I can do with my strengths to be resilient and thrive. 

 

What can you do to build your resilience with your strengths?

  1. Know yourself completely. It's hard to attempt anything if you don't know yourself.
  2. Accept yourself – the good and bad.  This is called confident vulnerability by DeAnna Murphy, my teacher and strengths mentor from Strengths Strategy Inc /People Acuity Inc.
  3. Identify your emotions in the moment.
  4. WAIT. Put off any reaction that may be bursting out of your mind and mouth.
  5. Understand through some introspection why you are feeling this emotion.  Look for what you can learn from the incident.
  6. Leveraging your strengths by strategically choosing to apply them, and deciding on a course of action.
  7. Be willing to let go of the need to show yourself as better than the other.
  8. Do the action in the most respectful manner you can manage.
  9. Be accountable to yourself throughout this process.


Using your strengths is the best way to deal with this situation.  Here's how some of my top 10 strengths (from the CliftonStrengths assessment) work in this tense situation - 

  • Intellection to reflect on my actions and the events leading up to the situation
  • Analytical to make sense of the different variables that come up.
  • Learner to see what I can learn from what has happened so far.
  • Ideation, Relator and Individualization to look for ways to rebuild the bridge
  • Self Assurance to remind me that I can control myself only and not the other person, and that it's ok if my action plan doesn't give me results.

All these strengths have to work together to give me the outcome that I desire. Yes, this isn't easy, and takes #deliberatepractice. If you are wondering why you should go through all this trouble of using your strengths to build resilience, then think of how such a course of action would positively impact your:

  • Relationships (at home and the office)
  • Interpersonal Effectiveness
  • Decision Making
  • Conflict Resolution
  • Managing and guiding your team
  • Employer Brand
  • Personal Brand

 

If all this makes sense to you, then constantly remind yourself of who you are and Who You Are NOT!

Complete the sentence as you see fit - And I am NOT ________________

Want to know more about strategically leveraging your strengths?  Write to me for a discussion on ryanbbarretto@hotmail.com or call me at +919820155778.

Tuesday, 21 April 2020

In Challenging Times, Customer Service Quality Matters Most!

An excellent article on the importance and impact of customer service from the most renowned name in Customer Service - Ron Kaufman. Read on - 

In Challenging Times, Customer Service Quality Matters Most!

As the wind of economic cycles blows hard, some businesses try to contain costs by cutting corners on customer service quality. This is exactly the wrong thing to do, because customer service quality matters now more than ever. Here’s why:
A. When people buy during an economic downturn they are extremely conscious of the hard-earned money that they spend. Customers want more attention, more appreciation and more recognition when making their purchases with you, not less. Customer service quality is simply essential.
B. Customers want to be sure they get maximum value for the money they spend. They want assistance, education, training, installation, modifications and support. The basic product may remain the same, but they want more service and higher customer service quality.
C. Customers want firmer guarantees that their purchase was the right thing to do. In good times, a single bad purchase can be quickly overlooked or forgotten, but in tough times, every expenditure is scrutinized. Provide the assurance your customers seek with generous service guarantees, regular follow-up and speedy follow-through on all queries and complaints. Customer service quality matters more than you think.
D. In difficult economic times, people spend less time traveling and “wining and dining,” and more time carefully shopping for each and every purchase. Giving great service enhances the customer’s shopping experience and boosts your own company’s image.
When times are good, people move fast and sometimes don’t notice your efforts. In tougher times, people move more cautiously and notice every extra effort you make. Customer service quality is vital because people will pay attention and remember.
E. When money is tight, many people experience a sense of lower self-esteem. When they get good service from your business, it boosts their self-image. And when they feel good about themselves, they feel good about you. And when they feel good about you and your customer service quality, they buy.
F. In tough times, people talk more with each other about saving money and getting good value. Positive word-of-mouth is a powerful force at any time. In difficult times, even more ears will be listening. Be sure the words spoken about your business are good ones by making your customer service quality exceptional!

The Secrets of Superior Service

Giving high customer service quality in tough times makes good business sense. But how do you actually achieve it? Here are eight proven principles you can use to raise customer service quality. I call them The Secrets of Superior Service.
1. Understand how your customers’ expectations are rising and changing over time. What was good enough last year may not be good enough now. Use customer surveys, interviews and focus groups to understand what your customers really want, what they value and what they believe they are getting (or not getting) from your business.
2. Use customer service quality to differentiate your business from your competition. Your products may be reliable and up-to-date – but your competitors’ goods are, too. Your delivery systems may be fast and user-friendly, but so are your competitors’!
You can make a more lasting difference by providing personalized, responsive and extra-mile customer service quality that stands out in a unique way your customers will appreciate – and remember.
3. Set and achieve high standards for customer service quality. You can go beyond basic and expected levels of service to provide your customers with desired and even surprising service interactions.
Determine the standard customer service quality in your industry, and then find a way to go beyond it. Give more choice than “the usual,” be more flexible than “normal,” be faster than “the average’,” and extend a better warranty than all the others.
Your customers will notice your higher standards. But eventually those standards will be copied by your competitors, too. So don’t slow down. Keep stepping up customer service quality!
4. Learn to manage your customers’ expectations. You can’t always give customers everything their hearts desire. Sometimes you need to bring their expectations into line with what you know you can deliver in regard to customer service quality.
The best way to do this is by first building a reputation for making and keeping clear promises. Once you have established a base of trust and good reputation, you only need to ask your customers for their patience in the rare instances when you cannot meet their first requests. Nine times out of ten they will extend the understanding and the leeway that you need.
The second way to manage customers’ expectations is to “under promise, then over deliver.”. Here’s an example: you know your customer wants something done fast. You know it will take an hour to complete. Don’t tell your customer it will take an hour. Instead, let them know you will rush on their behalf, but promise a 90-minute timeframe.
Then, when you finish in just one hour (as you knew you would all along), your customer will be delighted to find that you finished the job “so quickly.” That’s “under promise, then over deliver.” This can help you gain a reputation for customer service quality.
5. Bounce back with effective service recovery. Sometimes things do go wrong. When it happens to your customers, do everything you can to set things right and demonstrate customer service quality. Fix the problem and show sincere concern for any discomfort, frustration or inconvenience. Then do a little bit more by giving your customer something positive to remember – a token of goodwill, a gift of appreciation, a discount on future orders, an upgrade to a higher class of product.
This is not the time to assign blame for what went wrong or to calculate the costs of repair. Restoring customer goodwill is worth the price in positive word-of-mouth and new business.
6. Appreciate your complaining customers. Customers with complaints can be your best allies in building and improving your business. They point out where your system is faulty or your procedures are weak and problematic. They show where your products or services are below expectations. They point out areas where your competitors are getting ahead or where your staff is falling behind. These are the same insights and conclusions companies pay consultants to provide. But a complainer gives them to you free and can help you raise customer service quality!
And remember, for every person who complains, there are many more who don’t bother to tell you. The others just take their business elsewhere…and speak badly about you. At least the complainer gives you a chance to reply and set things right.
7. Take personal responsibility. In many organizations, people are quick to blame others for problems or difficulties at work: managers blame staff, staff blame managers, Engineering blames Sales, Sales blames Marketing and everyone blames Finance. This does not help. In fact, all the finger-pointing make things much worse.
Blaming yourself doesn’t work, either. No matter how many mistakes you may have made, tomorrow is another chance to do better. You need high self-esteem to deliver customer service quality. Feeling ashamed doesn’t help.
It doesn’t make sense to make excuses and blame the computers, the system or the budget, either. This kind of justification only prolongs the pain before the necessary changes can take place.
The most reliable way to bring about constructive change in your organization is to take personal responsibility and help make good things happen. When you see something that needs to be done, do it to raise customer service quality. If you see something that needs to be done in another department, recommend it. Be the person who makes suggestions, proposes new ideas and volunteers to help on problem solving teams, projects and solutions.
8. See the world from each customer’s point of view. We often get so caught up in our own world that we lose sight of what our customers actually experience.
Make time to stand on the other side of the counter or listen on the other end of the phone. Be a “mystery shopper” at your own place of business. Or become a customer of your best competition. What you notice when you look from the “other side” is what your customers experience every day.
Finally, always remember that customer service quality is the currency that keeps our economy moving. I serve you in one business, you serve me in another. When either of us improves customer service quality, the economy gets a little better. When both of us improve, people are sure to take notice. When everyone improves, the whole world grows stronger and closer together.
The time to make it happen is now.
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